Some people tread slowly through life,
Avoiding the closeness risk brings,
Side-stepping the things
they can't understand
Turning away from
those who care too much-
Those who care too long,
Those who hold too tightly.
There is never an easy way to love
You cannot approach it cautiously
It will not wait for you to arm yourself.
It does not care if you turn away
It is everywhere, it is everything.
Love is the greatest of all risks.
It is not reliable, it is not cautious,
It is not sympathetic
It is unprejudiced and unmerciless.
It strikes the strongest of mind,
And brings them to their knees in one blow.
Even in the best of times, love hurts.
It hurts to need, it hurts to belong,
It hurts to be
the other part of someone else,
Without either of your consent.
But, from the moment it overtakes you,
It hurts worse to be all alone.
The risk of love never depletes;
It grows stronger and
more dangerous with time.
But, it's in the total surrender of all defense,
That we, no matter weak or strong,
No matter
willing or captive,
No matter what,
we truly experience love.
Despite the many things love is not,
Outweighing it all, are the things that love is.
Love is surrender without a loss.
It is a gift without the cost.
It consumes your every thought & desire,
Every breath you take.
It is the fire that fuels you
To do more than pass through life;
It urges you, instead, to live.
No matter the outcome, having felt love,
You will never be the same.
It may scar your heart & soul
And Leave you only
memories of forever.
Or, it may cause every day of your life
To feel like there is no need for tomorrow.
But, love is worth it.
It is worth the risk...
For in all of life,
Love is truly the only risk worth taking.
Held loosely, with an open hand and the sand remains where it is.
The minute you close your hand
and squeeze tightly to hold on,
the sand trickles , through your fingers.
You may hold onto some of it, but most will be spilled.
A relationship is like that.
Held loosely, with respect and freedom for the other person,
It is likely to remain intact.
But hold too tightly,
too possessively,
and the relationship slips away.
And is lost.
Love is
being honest with yourself at all times
being honest with
the other person at all times
telling, listening, respecting the truth
and never pretending
Love is the source of reality
Love is
���an understanding that is so complete that
���you feel as if you are a part of the other person
���accepting the other person
just the way they are
���and not trying to
change them to be something
���Love is the source of unity
Love is
���the freedom to pursue your own desires
���while sharing your experiences with the other
���the growth of one individual alongside of
���and together with the growth of another
���Love is the source of success
Love is
���the excitement of planning things together
���the excitement of doing things together
���Love is the source of the future
Love is
the fury of the storm
the calm of the rainbow
Love is the source of passion
Love is
giving and taking in a daily situation
being patient with each other's
needs and desires
Love is the source of sharing
Love is
knowing that the other person
will always be with you
regardless of what happens
missing the other person
when they are away
but remaining near in heart at all times
Love is the source of security
Love is
the source of life
Susan Polis Schutz